Once, there was a man known for his beautiful garden. His front yard was the pride of the neighborhood—neatly trimmed hedges, vibrant flowers, and immaculate arrangements. Neighbors often praised him for his dedication and the beauty of his garden.

However, one day, a neighbor noticed something surprising. While the front garden was stunning, the back was overgrown with weeds and completely neglected. The man had focused so much on showcasing the perfect front garden to impress others that he had neglected the hidden parts of his garden.

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This story illustrates a key lesson: It’s incongruous to present a flawless exterior while neglecting what’s hidden from view. We can all put on a façade of faith and virtue on Sundays, but what about the parts of our lives that aren’t visible to others? How do we nurture our inner life and the private moments where our true values come to light?

Let's reflect on this. Are we tending to the whole garden of our lives, or just the parts that others see? True faith isn’t about the image we project; it’s about caring for every part of our life, both the public and the private, to truly reflect our beliefs.

There’s sometimes a gap between what we believe and how we act, and it’s all too easy to slip into hypocrisy. The real challenge is ensuring our actions consistently align with our words every day.

So, how can we bridge that gap and tend to our entire spiritual garden?

First, practice empathy. When you encounter someone who seems disengaged or different in their approach to faith, pause and consider their perspective. Their way of connecting with God might be different from yours, just as you have your own unique path. Understanding their struggles and walking in their shoes can help you respond with compassion rather than judgment.

Next, embrace humility. We all have areas in our lives that need growth. If someone points out a flaw or gives you feedback, see it as an opportunity to improve rather than a personal attack. Recognizing that we are all works in progress can help us align our actions with our beliefs more authentically.

Prayer and reflection in your daily routine are key. Regularly ask God for guidance to live out your faith in all areas of your life. Reflect on your actions and seek strength to make choices that align with your values. Prayer can be a powerful tool in keeping your spiritual garden well-tended.

Finally, build a supportive community around you. Surround yourself with fellow believers who encourage and challenge you to grow. Sharing your struggles and victories with a trusted group can provide accountability and inspiration.

God Bless you.
Fr. Francisco Mendonça